VACATION - Enjoy Your Time

Finally, it is end of the exam fever. Had lot of stress, anxiety, nervousness, shivering, excitement, joy, happy or sad moments, proud moments and lot more. Finally, it is the end of all these things. Now you are like a free bird. Enjoy your own liberty.

Liberty?  Liberty is a strange thing for student these days. Students aren't having liberty to enjoy themselves. Students are always told just to educate themselves. Yes, education is important factor in life but at the same time, they should have been given sometime for themselves. Yeah the time in which they can do their own free time activity which they like. The time in which no one force them to do anything. Let them enjoy their life. Let them enjoy their own activity.

For this thing to happen, parents must have to keep their child away from electronic gadgets like mobile phone,T.V and  laptop games which have actually taken the street fun memories of the children of this generation. The generation which born around 2005 never know what pleasure and passion we can get just by playing any street sports. So Students have to stay away from the mobile and laptop games to get the real joy of life.

Vacation one of the most beautiful time to spare during childhood days. Present generation students forgetting the importance of vacation. Especially 10th std students are having no important of vacation in their life. School get reopen before the schedule time. Formerly, 10th children used to get full 3 months vacation where they used to enjoy themselves, play games on street till late night and used to be with friends without concerning or worrying about the time. That's where one can find the life and live the life in your own terms. But now the situation and scenario completely changed. No more vacation, no more jolly moments. In such circumstances, how our children can identify their passion?

In order to find a passion, one need to go through many task, one need to perform and participate in order to find your passion. Passion is one such thing that individual needs to identify, need to introspect and so one need to carry out many activities. 

Student these days are rushing behind one another like a sheep and forgetting the value and importance of their own life. None of students think practically about their life. They just want to score good than other and eventually losing the self importance that one need to have in life. You cannot be a master if you start your eleventh right from the april. Formerly, people always start the upcoming academic years from June onwards and even though they become great engineers and doctors and scientist.

So students must need to understand the importance of their own life,  circumstances of their parents, identify the passion of their own, enjoy their own liberty and must play at least one sport in life to be mentally tough. Students must enjoy their full vacation without any burden of studies and live and cherish the moments of life that will never gonna come back. Think practical life, live magical life.

You can carry out these activity during your vacation period. 
1. Read two or three good books
2. Learn musical instrument, dance, drawing or any other activity that you are interested in.
3. Don't waste time unnecessarily sitting with friends.
4. Play sports with friends.
5. Play Sports in the morning.
6. Spend time with your Family.

A PROPOSAL

A Proposal

Love- No one can define this perfectly in this world. Love is one of the most beautiful emotions of life. It is the most beautiful thing that one can feel in life. Sometimes it seems best, sometimes it seems worse. It depends on the situation just because many love stories get terminates and many may not have a happy ending.

The proposal is probably the most beautiful phase in the love story. That moment is something different in life just because it might be the first time a person feels special regarding his own self. A person start to smile for no reason, start to be happy. A person is optimistic and just feel happiness around him all the time.

After a proposal, everytime a person thinks that his/her proposal will get accepted. Where in the case, it's not cent percent true. Sometimes it will get accepted and sometimes it won't get accepted. That throughly depends on the person who is begin proposed. So it's better to accept the reality than living in the dreams only.

It's true that no one likes the rejection. But that's where you need to meet the reality of life. Everytime things won't turn out to be in your favour. Yes, we do expect that our proposal to be accepted and we would win our love for the lifetime. But sometimes our expectations will turn down. And proposal isn't a frequent thing that either happens or a thing that is being carried out. It sometimes like a once in a lifetime moment. It's the beautiful time to live. Butterflies fly in the stomach. One can get perspiring even during the cold winter days. One won't be able to sleep peacefully. And many such thing happens unknowingly. That's the most beautiful moment of life where we actually introspect ourselves just because we want to have a best version of self in that moment.

Things aren't there in your control once you propose someone. You have to wait and that's the best move you can play. People usually lose his calm composure when the wait gets bit extended. People start to behave immaturely in such phase and may turn out to be rude. People always feel that they are right once they lost their temperament. So it is very important to stay calm and have patience. It's a kind if acid test, through which you must have to pass to wait for the conclusive response.

It's a real test of patience in life. Proposal teaches you to build up your patience without losing your temperament. Just wait for your turn to respond. And yes, it is very much necessary to lead to discussion calmly keeping the utter respect in the heart. You cannot force anyone to love you back. You must have to respect their decision which may be either in your favour or may not be. You must have to accept the decision wisely without any further illogical justifications. If you truly love someone then you must accept their decision. Love isn't any game to be played to win or lose. Love is just accepting the reality and move on with life. 

So just believe in yourself and believe in God. If things are meant to happen, it will happen. If it don't, It won't...

Thanks a lot...
  - Keval Karia

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MATHS Paper - Topic to debate

It's all became a topic of Debate about 10th Maths gseb paper. Here I would like to share my own personal opinions...

Yeah it's an acceptable thing that paper was tough for the students of class 10th to face off. They just handed over the paper for which they aren't prepared. Aren't prepared? Really? Yes as per my opinion, we never prepared them for the tough competitions. Teachers never told them that it's okay if there would be no questions from the textbook. Teachers never told them to be ready for the tough challenge to face. We always told them to look after their marks rather than the knowledge they are aiming. It's important to back them and encourage them for what they are.

By doing an issue and criticizing boards means we are not preparing our childrens for tough situations in life. We want them to be okay within their comfort zone. If they are crying, let them cry. Just sit after them and talk about the life situations and make them understand that every time situation won't turn out to be in your favour. Sometimes life will give you a bright sunny morning, sometimes life will come up with dark stormy night. Everyone loves the happy and calm moments of life. But those who can survive in tough conditions can be a super hero. So this maths paper was just like this. It wasn't just about the knowledge. It was all about the amalgamation of knowledge, temperament, patience, and self confidence.

If you performed well in Maths paper, then cheers just because except marks, you are having a strong mental strength to tackle tough situation in life. And if your maths paper wasn't up to mark, then you are fortunate to have a good life lesson. Lesson which you might can't get anywhere. You became mentally strong to face the difficult life situations. You had an idea that how to tackle the tough situations in life. You learned to stay positive even when the situation turned worst. ACCORDING TO ME, THESE LESSONS ARE BEYOND THE MARKS. Really grateful and PROUD to see my students standing tall during the tough phase and fought hard to be at the top of their efforts. You gave your best and what else you want in life except your best efforts. I'm really feeling proud to watching you growing up and fighting with the life.

So chin up champions! It's all fine to have ups and downs in life. Just focus and concentrate hard in your next paper. Prepare well, gear up and just go again to give your best input. Follow the process without expecting the output is the best way to lead the journey. Keep working hard and just keep things simple. I always believe that you are special in your own way. 2-3 marks, ups and downs, its fine. The more earlier you accept, a better human being you can became. 

According to me the marks you gonna score in Gseb board's maths paper will be equivalent to the score if it would be easy.

Easy Maths Paper.   Board's maths paper

        78-80/80.                            72-75/80

        75-77/80.                            68-72/80

        70-75/80.                            62-68/80

        65-70/80.                            55-62/80

And so on...

You need to understand that score isn't everything you need to get. The simple thing is that you need to go out there and perform better in the difficult conditions. If you performed either well or average, even though you will be ahead of many other students. Your Percentile Rank won't get affected by yesterday's paper even if you score around 60-65. Maths paper was like India playing a Test match against New Zealand in windy Wellington in swinging conditions. So just relax and be proud of yourself to face one of the most difficult situation in life with the positive intent.

Life is good... So are you...

Thanks a lot...

-KEVAL KARIA

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BE LIKE A LAMP

Many things happening around us everyday. We are the witness of many positive and negative things that happening around us. In routine life, some of our wishes get fulfilled while some remains incomplete. We always had a bitter sweet experience everyday in our life. We just contemplate about all the things happened to us in the past. Either we are happy or sad, either we are motivated or frustrated. There are few things that everyone needs to adapt and follow in their life to have a life full of optimistic approaches.

One should be like a LAMP. Yes! Lamp burns itself and gives light to others. Lamp teaches us, "Give something to others or dedicate something to others." That quality one needs to develop in their own life.

We all human beings are very greedy creature of the planet. Human being always had a thought of gaining something. Human beings never focus on the thought of giving. We always do those things which are profitable for us. The first thought that comes in our mind before doing any task is that how much profit I would get in return. We never think about how it will gonna be fruitful for us, we never think about that how much helpful it would be for others. We just focus on ourselves.  If we find that theirs nothing profitable thing in that particular task, we give up on it and move on.

By having a thought of getting something, a person may get success in his life. He may get all the materiasiatic things in his life for which he is aiming for. His life may filled with light. But those prosperity is only for the show off. It's fake smile that he wore everyday. Deep inside he is still an unsatisfied human being. There's disruption in his heart, there's unhappiness in his heart. He always get surrounded by many kinds of fear. We are always surrounded by many fears in our life. Fear of failure, Fear of losing dignity, Fear of not completing our dreams, and many such kind of thought always distract us and so we are not able to focus on the things we are doing.

The basic reason behind all this fears, distraction and unhappiness is EXPECTATIONS. We hold on to our Expectations. We always want our expectations to be satisfied at any cost. And that's were, we always make a mistake. We always have to be prepared with the second option. And in that case, you won't find yourself much frustrated if the result doesn't meet your expectations.

More the thought of getting, more the unhappiness you'll have in your life. In contrast, more the thought of giving, more the peace you'll have in your life. By following the thought of giving, one enlighten his own life and others too.

There was a great businessman. He was very smart regarding all his deals in his business. Once many years back, he had prepared a list of 15-20 things that he wanted to achieve in his life which would yeild him happiness. He thought that after fulfilling all his wishes, he would get the peace in his life. After preparing that list he started working hard on his business and one after another. He tick mark the check boxes against the thing he fulfills. Likewise at the end he accomplished all the things that he had noted down in his list.

He was very satisfied on day one. But later on he realized that still there's something missing. He was still feeling incomplete. He checked out his list again and found that each and every thing he wanted to achieve in his life are accomplished.

Later on he analyzed himself and found that all the wishes of which he had prepared a list is for himself. In each and every wishes, his personal profit are kept at the centre. He prepared thd list of all his wishes to satisfy his own instinct. He never cared about others. So at the end, he satisfied his own instinct but still haven't found that peace of mind he is aiming for. He realized that thing and from the very next moment, he changed the concept of his life.

He started working for others, he started giving priority to others. He started working on his business one more time, but this time the concept was different. Formerly he thought that how can I earn maximum amountof profit? Now he thought that how can I provide maximum employment to many people? How can I satisfy the daily needs of maximum amount of people.

By developing the thought of giving. He achieved all the things that he was achieving while having thought of getting. But here the extra thing he was getting is the PEACE OF MIND. He started feeling satisfied, he started feeling positive towards his life.

So one should always work with the thought of giving rather than getting. By doing so, if all the people started thinking in that way, one can surely attain a peaceful and productive society.

Thanks a lot...
- Keval Karia

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FINAL FIGHT - BOARDS

So finally it is the time for the board exams. The time finally came for which you, your parents, your well wishers, your doubters, your haters, your competitors are waiting since long.

You worked hard a lot for this day, for this challenge. You missed out and failed to work up to mark on many occasions throughout the year. It's fine, it happens. The most important thing at present is to accept yourself. Whatever the hard work that you have done till date was your best efforts that you can do. If you will accept yourself rather than cursing yourself, then it will help you to find your better self ahead in life. So chin up and heartily accept yourself for what you are. 

Now just focus on what the best you can do in these coming days. What can be your best move. Your best effort, that you can show. Just go out and enjoy yourself. Express yourself, express your knowledge. It is very important to enjoy the exams rather than taking any pressure. It's obvious to get nervous and feel pressure in such situations in life. But remember that situations makes you mentally strong in life. It's really important to live such crunch moments in life and trying to be positive out in the middle of the phase.

It is important to stay relax and calm before facing any challenges in life. The more you be relax and calm, the better you can perform. Calmness gift you the confidence. Confidence is very important factor that one must achieve in life. Confidence as you to take down the extra pressure that comes up on you. Self confidence plays a very crucial role in your road to success. So just take a deep breath and say to yourself, " you can do it...", and gift yourself a huge confidence. You feel confident if you have performed well in your past. You feel bit of nervousness if you didn't. Hence during your practice sessions it's important to have a good practice to get a great confidence.

Sometimes one take their practice sessions boring and it is where they are making a blunder. It's important to take the practice session seriously so that you can find out your mistakes and work on it. In order to improvise, you need to interpret and analyse your mistakes. Work on your mistakes then it simply means that you are leveling up.

In exams, if someone ask me that how can I score good? My simple answer will be that, make less mistakes and you can score good. It's OK to lose marks on the answer that you are not knowing as you are not deserving that marks. But if you make a mistake on the answer which is in your range, then it's a blunder. Just because you are deserving that marks.

Scoring 50 60 75 90 100 or any other digit doesn't matter. What that matter is your efforts. Give your 100% Input and let your output be spontaneous. One mistake that student are making is that they are contemplating about the results all the time rather than the performance they are going to give. Students keep thinking about questions which are going to be asked in the question paper rather than being ready for whatever the question that is going to be asked in the paper.

Simple change your thought process can affect and change your result drastically in a positive way. So take it as a exam that you are giving since long. It's the time to perform, it's the time to be natural and just perform well. No need to take any pressure. Just be excited for the challenge that you are going to face. You just trust and back yourself and try to bring out the best that lies within you. Give your best and results will follow.

Heartily wishing all the Board Candidates ALL THE BEST FOR THEIR BOARD EXAMS. Go out, and Perform well...!!! God is with you, Parents blessings are their with you...

THANKS A LOT

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