An Essence of Life...

AN ESSENCE OF LIFE...
 

Life- A beautiful Journey. We never know, what turn it takes. Sometimes dice falls into your favour, sometimes it mayn't. It's just absolutely unpredictable. We Humans always try to shape the things according to our convenience, but God will always have different bitter-sweet plans for us. It often happens that we just keep on pushing ourselves to things we desire for and end up achieving nothing. Yeah! It happens with all of us here. Contrary to that, sometimes we don't work to get anything in return, though things comes up to us. Yeah it's obvious that we feel happy for that stuff but that essence won't be there, just because the taste of getting something through hard work is simply splendid. All we can do is just believe in process and keep working hard. Trust the things that you are doing and results will follow. Amidst all these rise and falls prevailing in Life, we just forget something which seems very important to be focused on. It's none other than to Spare Time For Yourself | Living for yourself | Breathing for yourself!!!

Sometimes it is really important to take a swappy break. Just be with the one who makes you feel good. Just doing the things which you like. Then, there hardly seems a need to undertake any extra burden. It's like venturing out the simplest way through which you can just take care of yourself...Mindwell, Just You and Yourself!!!

 

During this Life Journey, you meet many people, you talk with many people. People having different mindset and mentality; People with different language and from different regions. The most appropriate person with whom you like to share all your in n outs are those, who bear the same mindset just like yours. And that's the moment where you be yourself and express yourself in front of them. It's just because of that understanding and bonding, they won't judge you and that's where you get a platform to express your thoughts and emotions precisely. And naturally if you try to be with the person whose thought process is just contradictory to yours, it won't last long. It will gradually get terminate after a while and create differences. Haha, let me be more precise that Choice and Thoughts are different things. You may notice that sometimes people having different choices be together, while sometimes people having same choices stay apart, and the basic reason is Mindset. So it is very important to be with few, but make sure they are Quality ones'. If you be with such who aren't having any Goals and Ambitions in life, then probably you will end up dealing with the same. And, if you be with such fellows with whom you can have a quality ideas and opinions, then it will result better for both the parties.

It always happens that we always get so much involved in our work that we fail to spare some moments with our family. It is obvious that in the fast moving life, no one is having time for other. But that should not be the case as far as ones' family is considered. We must spend at least some moments with our family, with our parents. It's fair to keep going with all the hard work in life to grow ourselves, but at the same time we should not forget that our parents are growing old too. So it should be our prime responsibility to spare out few time and should spend it with our beloved parents.

While dealing with all the stuff in life and taking care of all the responsibilities and relations, we always use to forget to spare the time for ourselves. Time during which we can do the stuff which we like, and which we long for. To do few childhood activities that we actually used to do before many years. It's like reading our favourite book, watching out our favourite movie, spare few moments with kids, laughing out with friends, conversing with family members and what not, the list goes on. It is important to live such moments just because it makes you feel happy, rather Happy from Inside!!!

 Those are the moments which can boost up your inner self to keep going with all the task that you are dealing with. It is essential part of life. You can get all the materialistic things of the world by working hard, but you won't be able to get happiness, love and care. Just because those are the things which you can't buy and it can only be felt. 

 

If you aren't going through hard times where you feel the lack of 24 hours, then few of the things won't implies to you. Just because you aren't having much things to do, so basically you are having enough time to spare it for yourself. And undoubtedly, you're sparing that time by watching movies, scrolling social networking sites, watching Youtube videos, or just sitting idle feeling all blank. You need to jump out from your bed. Age is never a concern at all if you are determined to hit big. Start doing that sort of things in which your passion lies. Many people have asked me till date regarding the passion, How can one know about his passion??? And my all time simple reply to them is that, "Just keep working out on many things that comes on the way. Try out your hand on either Sports or Craft or any other stuff. By working on so many things, you'll surely find that one thing that you loved to do. And that's the point, that's the way, that's the direction in which you should work." By doing nothing, you are going nowhere. And in this fast and competitive world, one can't be like that. People always look forward to get direct results. Direct results are myth. You need to work hard to get the desired things. And if you are getting the things in your life without troubling yourself, probably the source doesn't belong to you. So you should start working, and start believing in the process. Process is followed by Success later on. So absorb all the energy of the world, and put it into your work. Sometimes your inner self will get boost up with extreme confidence, while sometimes you will have all the frustration of the world. That is actually the real fun during the process. And during such moments in life, character comes into play.

So life is a beautiful journey. One needs to maintain the balance among all the things to make it beautiful. It's acceptable that few days are monotonous while few days are blissful. Under all circumstances, one needs to stay Neutral. Just believe in the process, live with joy, make people around you happy, dream big, and keep your chase on. Life is so beautiful, worth to live. Live for Yourself and Be with Yourself rather than being Socially Active and later, there comes a time where we acutely feel, 'Those Were The Days'. Cheers! Keep smiling:)

                             

 By :- KEVAL KARIA