A PROPOSAL

A Proposal

Love- No one can define this perfectly in this world. Love is one of the most beautiful emotions of life. It is the most beautiful thing that one can feel in life. Sometimes it seems best, sometimes it seems worse. It depends on the situation just because many love stories get terminates and many may not have a happy ending.

The proposal is probably the most beautiful phase in the love story. That moment is something different in life just because it might be the first time a person feels special regarding his own self. A person start to smile for no reason, start to be happy. A person is optimistic and just feel happiness around him all the time.

After a proposal, everytime a person thinks that his/her proposal will get accepted. Where in the case, it's not cent percent true. Sometimes it will get accepted and sometimes it won't get accepted. That throughly depends on the person who is begin proposed. So it's better to accept the reality than living in the dreams only.

It's true that no one likes the rejection. But that's where you need to meet the reality of life. Everytime things won't turn out to be in your favour. Yes, we do expect that our proposal to be accepted and we would win our love for the lifetime. But sometimes our expectations will turn down. And proposal isn't a frequent thing that either happens or a thing that is being carried out. It sometimes like a once in a lifetime moment. It's the beautiful time to live. Butterflies fly in the stomach. One can get perspiring even during the cold winter days. One won't be able to sleep peacefully. And many such thing happens unknowingly. That's the most beautiful moment of life where we actually introspect ourselves just because we want to have a best version of self in that moment.

Things aren't there in your control once you propose someone. You have to wait and that's the best move you can play. People usually lose his calm composure when the wait gets bit extended. People start to behave immaturely in such phase and may turn out to be rude. People always feel that they are right once they lost their temperament. So it is very important to stay calm and have patience. It's a kind if acid test, through which you must have to pass to wait for the conclusive response.

It's a real test of patience in life. Proposal teaches you to build up your patience without losing your temperament. Just wait for your turn to respond. And yes, it is very much necessary to lead to discussion calmly keeping the utter respect in the heart. You cannot force anyone to love you back. You must have to respect their decision which may be either in your favour or may not be. You must have to accept the decision wisely without any further illogical justifications. If you truly love someone then you must accept their decision. Love isn't any game to be played to win or lose. Love is just accepting the reality and move on with life. 

So just believe in yourself and believe in God. If things are meant to happen, it will happen. If it don't, It won't...

Thanks a lot...
  - Keval Karia

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